tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post4926832333559135018..comments2024-01-31T08:40:13.371-08:00Comments on Alex in Spankingland: Out of the Bagalex reynoldshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-49723460972930333832012-06-30T20:47:14.616-07:002012-06-30T20:47:14.616-07:00Thanks so much! I try my best to be strong..it isn...Thanks so much! I try my best to be strong..it isn't always easy, but its an uphill struggle! Things are starting to get much better, so hooray for that!alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-86961740124013519522012-06-30T20:46:32.437-07:002012-06-30T20:46:32.437-07:00Thank you so much, Bonnie! It's true: this who...Thank you so much, Bonnie! It's true: this whole ordeal has really helped me to review where I came from and what kind of woman I was able to become despite it. And you guys are all so wonderful! Hugs!alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-54419323061270512892012-06-30T20:45:16.337-07:002012-06-30T20:45:16.337-07:00Thank you! Having you proud of me makes me feel re...Thank you! Having you proud of me makes me feel really good inside, because I respect you so much. <br /><3alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-66574663440908704262012-06-30T20:44:42.422-07:002012-06-30T20:44:42.422-07:00You can give me a big hug at Shadowlane! I'm s...You can give me a big hug at Shadowlane! I'm so glad to know you and to have you in my family, Erica. You're one of the greatest people I've ever met, and I mean that. <3alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-85641730796825898662012-06-30T20:43:59.088-07:002012-06-30T20:43:59.088-07:00Thanks for the comment! Body image is such a hard ...Thanks for the comment! Body image is such a hard thing, and I've certainly had my struggles with it, but I try to be confident and enjoy who I am, and I'm going to keep doing that with the scene stuff, too, no matter what my family of origin thinks. <br />:Dalex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-37998891419050761522012-06-30T20:42:47.924-07:002012-06-30T20:42:47.924-07:00Super hugs for you, Pandora! People in the scene h...Super hugs for you, Pandora! People in the scene have just been so great to me, and I'm so glad to have friends like you.alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-49778762646992877512012-06-30T20:42:05.612-07:002012-06-30T20:42:05.612-07:00I agree with you: being self reliant is a wonderfu...I agree with you: being self reliant is a wonderful source of strength. Thanks so much for your support! I really value you as a friend! :Dalex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-44680540061448432872012-06-30T20:41:20.383-07:002012-06-30T20:41:20.383-07:00Thank you! I appreciated your support when I first...Thank you! I appreciated your support when I first ran out of the house and couldn't reach Malignus! It makes me feel great that you are proud of me. XOXOXOXalex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-22865593309189772042012-06-30T20:40:38.117-07:002012-06-30T20:40:38.117-07:00*Hugs back*
You're one of my favorite people ...*Hugs back* <br />You're one of my favorite people in the scene, Lea! I'm so glad to know you.alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-36211496412843370302012-06-30T20:40:18.335-07:002012-06-30T20:40:18.335-07:00Thank you! I'm sure my next trip will be great...Thank you! I'm sure my next trip will be great. :Dalex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-18683664748503757952012-06-29T19:26:23.166-07:002012-06-29T19:26:23.166-07:00Oh, wow. I'm so sorry that happened the way i...Oh, wow. I'm so sorry that happened the way it did, but like some others have said, you're handling it in such a mature way. You seem to be a very strong person, and I think that's awesome... so keep it up, and I hope things get better soon.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03910489208431359436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-19410351854817458132012-06-29T10:42:52.468-07:002012-06-29T10:42:52.468-07:00Oh, Alex. That's horrible. I'm sorry to ...Oh, Alex. That's horrible. I'm sorry to hear you had to endure that experience with your mother.<br /><br />But the good news is... Look at you. Look how strong and centered you've become. Of course there's nothing wrong. You're an intelligent, thoughtful adult who is in control of her own life.<br /><br />And you do have us, always!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />BonnieBonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-64493363964279122022012-06-26T12:52:48.366-07:002012-06-26T12:52:48.366-07:00@Dana Kane-I would never want any of my blood rela...@Dana Kane-I would never want any of my blood relatives to know about my spanking activities-especially my video shoots. But I am VERY independent and like to keep parts of myself private from them in general.<br /><br />For my friendships, my best friend knows I love getting spanked-but I've never told her about the shoots I did. I MAY tell her about any future ones and act as if they're the 1st ones I did since I sort of broke it to her over a year ago I was "in pursuit" of spanking video companies.Alexis Steelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-71899624004826495012012-06-26T11:36:21.714-07:002012-06-26T11:36:21.714-07:00Alex,
I'm sorry to hear that your outing went...Alex,<br /><br />I'm sorry to hear that your outing went down the way it did, but am also fiercely proud of you for handling it so well. It's just further proof of your awesomeness.<br /><br />I'm curious, now - how many of us are 'out'?<br /><br />oxox<br />DanaDana Kanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09812277151171226272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-46620571227851517302012-06-26T11:26:55.113-07:002012-06-26T11:26:55.113-07:00Oh, Alex. Jesus. I'm so sorry; how traumatic f...Oh, Alex. Jesus. I'm so sorry; how traumatic for you.<br /><br />But you're right. The families we choose are often much more supportive and kind than the ones to which we were born. And I know you have a huge loving scene family. Including me -- I wanna hug you so bad right now!Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-30602414911286082702012-06-26T10:57:33.942-07:002012-06-26T10:57:33.942-07:00Sorry that your mom reacted that way. I'm sur...Sorry that your mom reacted that way. I'm sure it must have been hard on you because she not only invaded your privacy, but she judged you. <br />I Don't think there is anything wrong with your body. & I think it's great that despite her life long criticism of u, you are still comfortable with yourself & your body. I was criticised a lot as a child bc I was an over weight kid. I still struggle with self confidence & self esteem! I also think it's great that u shoot videos & take pics! I wish I were that comfortable with myself! <br /><br />I'm still new to this community, but u r right, everyone is very accepting & supportive! If only everyone could be that way! Personally, I don't think my chosen spanko & Dd lifestyle would surprise people that know me (well, maybe the submissive part would...). Non the less, it's hard to know who will flip on you. <br />So, I keep my spanko/Dd side hidden & hope that I never mix up my scene blogs/emails/posts, etc with those of my 'vanilla' alter ego!<br />Good luck on your new business!<br />xoxo<br />Jayden ;-)Jaydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-50753871257727911202012-06-26T10:56:21.853-07:002012-06-26T10:56:21.853-07:00Sorry that your mom reacted that way. I'm sur...Sorry that your mom reacted that way. I'm sure it must have been hard on you because she not only invaded your privacy, but she judged you. <br />I Don't think there is anything wrong with your body. & I think it's great that despite her life long criticism of u, you are still comfortable with yourself & your body. I was criticised a lot as a child bc I was an over weight kid. I still struggle with self confidence & self esteem! I also think it's great that u shoot videos & take pics! I wish I were that comfortable with myself! <br /><br />I'm still new to this community, but u r right, everyone is very accepting & supportive! If only everyone could be that way! Personally, I don't think my chosen spanko & Dd lifestyle would surprise people that know me (well, maybe the submissive part would...). Non the less, it's hard to know who will flip on you. <br />So, I keep my spanko/Dd side hidden & hope that I never mix up my scene blogs/emails/posts, etc with those of my 'vanilla' alter ego!<br />Good luck on your new business!<br />xoxo<br />Jayden ;-)Jaydenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02009935123244183027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-86014882437995885412012-06-26T10:43:20.914-07:002012-06-26T10:43:20.914-07:00Oh my god, how absolutely horrible for you. As if ...Oh my god, how absolutely horrible for you. As if your mom's behaviour and the rekindled grief for your brother wasn't difficult enough. I'm so sorry you had to go through that, and hope that your mum can come to a more tolerant place in time.<br /><br />In the meantime, thank fuck for chosen family. I'm so glad you have the support you need. Big hugs to you, sweetie.Pandora Blakehttp://dreamsofspanking.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-71204942388043433182012-06-26T03:37:30.628-07:002012-06-26T03:37:30.628-07:00Wow! I couldn't imagine a more traumatic outin...Wow! I couldn't imagine a more traumatic outing. <br />In a way, it seems you were already emotionally prepared long before this moment. When people cannot be close to family members for whatever the reasons, I actually think that provides us with an extra measure of mental strength. We learn to cope and adapt however we can.<br /><br />Good luck and keep yourself your main priority.Alexis Steelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-75680655261646258442012-06-26T00:29:05.833-07:002012-06-26T00:29:05.833-07:00<3 <3 You've handled a really big and sc...<3 <3 You've handled a really big and scary thing gracefully and with aplomb I dont know if I could have. As your friend (and of course your NiceTop(tm) and Boss of You :)), I am really proud. XoxoHeather/PTLhttp://fetlife.com/parttimelondonernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-47792989101469022232012-06-25T23:33:46.567-07:002012-06-25T23:33:46.567-07:00There are SO many great people in the scene and I&...There are SO many great people in the scene and I'm grateful for that every day. I'm so sorry to hear things caused more of a strain between you and your mother. *hugs*Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-30666245984178478802012-06-25T22:58:55.839-07:002012-06-25T22:58:55.839-07:00Sorry the trip was so disastrous on many levels, b...Sorry the trip was so disastrous on many levels, but glad you survived it and made it back to where you belong ok. HUGGGGGGS And yes, love and understanding is available by the bucketload around here. Your next trip to NYC will be much better ;-) Looking forward to the next post.BlackVelvet007noreply@blogger.com