tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post3991421763165513880..comments2024-01-31T08:40:13.371-08:00Comments on Alex in Spankingland: KOTW: The Wordsalex reynoldshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-25079473062448291612015-01-30T17:35:02.629-08:002015-01-30T17:35:02.629-08:00Yes! It's so hot, isn't it?!Yes! It's so hot, isn't it?!alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-46157242985523489612015-01-30T13:11:29.855-08:002015-01-30T13:11:29.855-08:00I completely agree, as the sub in our relationship...I completely agree, as the sub in our relationship I ache for him to tell me what to do in 'that' voice he has, the change of tone and the look that goes alongside it...mmm!sub-Beehttp://a-to-sub-bee.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-78732530881617569882014-12-24T10:56:26.639-08:002014-12-24T10:56:26.639-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.FREE DESI PORNOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18124683545578579917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-73967714348820182372014-12-05T00:53:06.025-08:002014-12-05T00:53:06.025-08:00*Gulp!**Gulp!*alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-31938576290918960932014-12-05T00:52:42.918-08:002014-12-05T00:52:42.918-08:00Thanks so much for your comment, Mark! I hope you ...Thanks so much for your comment, Mark! I hope you continue to do so in the future to keep dialog going!<br /><br />I so agree with you (in almost all scenes) about the power of a quiet but serious voice. I do like to roleplay angry scenes sometimes, but they're rarer, and the desire for the disciplinary tone you described is much stronger. <br /><br />I'm sorry we weren't able to get together when you visited! Things got a little crazy and I got behind on everything. Next time for sure! alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-51969510260557303472014-12-05T00:50:45.482-08:002014-12-05T00:50:45.482-08:00We're just wired differently than everyone els...We're just wired differently than everyone else: but we knew that, right?! :Dalex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-37254873215835959492014-12-05T00:50:27.737-08:002014-12-05T00:50:27.737-08:00I'll admit that it's much harder for me to...I'll admit that it's much harder for me to be the one talking during a scene, and it's more important for me to be talked and directed to say things than to actually come up with sexy/exciting things to say myself, which I realize is a little unbalanced, but it seems to work out. alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-76169906433413627522014-12-03T14:05:05.157-08:002014-12-03T14:05:05.157-08:00I think this counts as being late with your homewo...I think this counts as being late with your homework. Well, I am going to interpret it as such anyway, so.... Go to your room young lady!Paul Kennedyhttp://www.kitchensinkspanking.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-23505948914482823262014-12-02T12:33:14.367-08:002014-12-02T12:33:14.367-08:00Wonderful blog entry, and I'm disappointed I j...Wonderful blog entry, and I'm disappointed I just discovered your blog now. (I've been perusing for an hour, loving it!)<br /><br />I so agree on the power of talk, of the right words. I have so many scenarios that play out in my head, and I find that the language i imagine is almost more important than the idea of the actual spankings. Not just the words, either, but tone is crucial. <br />Sarah and I have taken in hand a young lady who needs discipline here in town, and she needs to be scolded, to the point of being shouted at. I'm not very good at that, because I'm not comfortable with shouting (at anyone!). I've found it more effective, and pleasant, to be firm with her in a quiet voice. It's somehow just as menacing and doesn't imply anger, which is a complete turn off for me. I'm not angry with her, I'm disciplining her. Very different.<br />In all spanking contexts, I think words are the triggers to a scene, catalysts that we have to get right. When we fantasize or when we play, we all start with the words of our spanker, or spankee. They transport us to that safe, warm place of love and respect, of excitement and fear, and sometimes words are the reason we're able to take spankings that seem to strain at the bounds of our physical capabilities.<br />And speaking of words, you and I were supposed to get together a couple of weeks ago in Long Beach. Sorry it didn't work out, but I still have plenty of school stories to tell you... the power of words to thrill in another form, I suppose. Who doesn't love real life spanking stories?!<br />Write on...<br />MarkMark (of Cutiecouple)noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-6312947451115173432014-12-02T12:18:59.717-08:002014-12-02T12:18:59.717-08:00I don't usually like traditional dirty talk; m...I don't usually like traditional dirty talk; most of it seems kind of generic and crass to me. But perhaps I'm just wired differently, because the word "punish" will make me weak in the knees.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02230915556455020371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-39183867204137265582014-12-02T06:43:59.010-08:002014-12-02T06:43:59.010-08:00Sometimes...all right, most of the time, I wish th...Sometimes...all right, most of the time, I wish that I could talk more. Words tend to get lost somewhere between my brain and mouth during a scene and during sex. Then, I can get derailed if I start trying to think about actually saying something. It's definitely frustrating for me and probably for my fiancé too. (Sigh) I like it when he talks, but it sucks when I don't know what to say or simply can't say anything.Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18040670158317646418noreply@blogger.com