tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post6616025360466591235..comments2024-01-31T08:40:13.371-08:00Comments on Alex in Spankingland: Drink me.alex reynoldshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-87774623480069070542012-08-08T13:11:13.554-07:002012-08-08T13:11:13.554-07:00Thanks for your comment: I appreciate the length o...Thanks for your comment: I appreciate the length of the dialoge that you engaged in. I really like having posts that turn into discussions and having people contribute like this. So, thanks for that! <br />It really helps me to hear that other people feel the same way that I do. I'm much less alone in the world, and that's always a good thing!<br /><3alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-55574704066950446132012-08-08T12:51:04.113-07:002012-08-08T12:51:04.113-07:00Hi there,
Sorry I didn't respond to your comme...Hi there,<br />Sorry I didn't respond to your comment right away. That's one of the responsibilities that kind of got away from me recently. <br /><br />I'd love to find people to play with who have the same feeling towards size that you expressed. I know that the opinion my friend gave me isn't universal. I've found that the feeling of being a small size has more to do with the atmosphere of the spanking and the positioning than my size relative to the spanker, after experimenting with this quite a bit at Crimson Moon and doing rigorous science with lots of Tops. :P <br /><br />When I'm spanked over a lap, I feel small and I feel able to let go of my bodily perceptions much more. Lying flat on a bed is second best, bent over something sturdy and comfortable is next, standing or in a precarious position is simply not enjoyable to me and makes me feel both large and lost. <br /><br />I'm going to keep working on my feelings about size in general and, as you said, continuing in my self-loving journey.<br />Thank you!<br />Alexalex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-26920369923131742062012-08-08T12:47:08.999-07:002012-08-08T12:47:08.999-07:00I totally wish! We'd both be totally set! :)
*...I totally wish! We'd both be totally set! :)<br />*hugs for you and Slinky and the gang*alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-56646191858387347362012-08-08T12:46:46.592-07:002012-08-08T12:46:46.592-07:00Thank you! That makes me feel really good. I hope ...Thank you! That makes me feel really good. I hope we get to meet up someday!alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-43265625923626957132012-08-08T12:46:23.158-07:002012-08-08T12:46:23.158-07:00Thank you so much! I appreciate it a lot.Thank you so much! I appreciate it a lot.alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-31277041108463739902012-07-26T09:41:22.843-07:002012-07-26T09:41:22.843-07:00Alex you are a lovely girl ,please dont worry ,lov...Alex you are a lovely girl ,please dont worry ,love and spanks,TimxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-68019404828256742442012-07-25T17:04:56.682-07:002012-07-25T17:04:56.682-07:00I've never seen anything but a beautiful woman...I've never seen anything but a beautiful woman every time I look at you... ;-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-7814016506054941312012-07-23T12:51:12.066-07:002012-07-23T12:51:12.066-07:00Que Sera Sera!
Cut you a deal. I'm 5', y...Que Sera Sera! <br /><br />Cut you a deal. I'm 5', you're 5'8, just give me 4 inches and problem solved! :) <br /><br />If only it was that easy, right? <br /><br />~Thursday KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-90929125116507929872012-07-23T11:09:10.170-07:002012-07-23T11:09:10.170-07:00For what it's worth, I've always gotten gr...For what it's worth, I've always gotten great pleasure out of spanking people taller than me-- and the majority of my sessions have been that way (I'm 5'6). My experience has been very different from your friend's, so far as the balance of gravity goes. Everyone does feel small over my lap, and I love that. I feel like I get to access a secret side of people, both emotionally *and* physically.<br /><br />I hope that you do continue to grow in your self-loving journey. But I hope you also regain the sensation of feeling physically little when you're horizontal, if that's something you crave.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-88936782046986207602012-07-22T22:59:55.654-07:002012-07-22T22:59:55.654-07:00Thank you for sharing this. I was nodding vigorous...Thank you for sharing this. I was nodding vigorously through the whole post. First, let me say, you are absolutely beautiful. It actually surprises me a bit that your appearance is something you struggle with because you come across as so cute and photogenic and confident. So maybe the insecurities in your head aren't as apparent to others as you think they are.<br /><br />Being a 6 foot tall woman, I SO understand a lot of what you expressed here. Feeling like I'm abnormally large has made me self conscious my entire life, from always being a head or two taller than all the other kids in school 20 years ago, to being painfully aware that the average man in America is several inches shorter than me and maybe I should move to Germany if I ever want to date. Or wherever the giants live. ;-)<br /><br />I know it's a much bigger deal to me than it is to other people because I'll get comments varying from "Just get over it, you can't do anything to change it" to "You could be a model! I wish I was that tall!" Well we all want what we can't have, don't we? <br /><br />Vertical stripes, that's an interesting tip. I'll have to try that one. ;-) I learned that slouching just makes me look worse and like, well, a tall person slouching. Didn't really make me shrink. At least once a week at work, where I have a desk job, when I have to get up to grab something for a customer I'll get the "Wow, I didn't realize you were so tall before!" Yes I am. Would you like to put me in a zoo and take pictures? Geez. People's idiotic comments just make me that much more self conscious about it.<br /><br />I was nervous and scared about a lot of things when I found the adult spanking world online. One of the biggest worries on my mind was exactly what you mentioned about being OTK. I thought "Everyone hypes up the whole OTK thing. What if I'm too big to be able to go over someone's lap? Am I not going to get to have the full spanking experience?" <br /><br />Fortunately, I found that it is usually not a problem. Of course when I play with a woman who is 5'2'', it's just not going to work so other positions are used. But I've laid across the laps of various people 5'7'' and up without much of a problem. I remember one of the first tops I played with was about 6'2''. I was over his lap, waiting for the spanking to start, and he could feel how tense I was. He said "Don't worry, I'm able to support your body. Just relax." He hasn't dropped me yet. ;-)<br /><br />Sorry this comment is turning into a whole post of it's own! Lol. My main point is I totally feel for you and you are not the only one out there who struggles with this. I wish I had the answer to self acceptance but it's not something I've mastered myself yet either. If you figure it out, please let me know. ;-)Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.com