tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post7039128046288877621..comments2024-01-31T08:40:13.371-08:00Comments on Alex in Spankingland: Regarding Baringalex reynoldshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-67680611783147728452013-03-06T09:35:34.479-08:002013-03-06T09:35:34.479-08:00Hi Alex ...very interesting post, great Blog. Than...Hi Alex ...very interesting post, great Blog. Thanks. Only ever bare for me. As a little girl growing up, I had a very strict father, and those early experiences, ignited my spanking interests. As a last- resort punishment only, he would smack my bare bottom with a light, rubber slipper. I've never forgotten the outrageous sting ! My shorts and undies were always pulled down, no exceptions. He never smacked through clothes. Same for my sister too. And as a sub today, I can't dovorce this stern but loving up-bringing from my kinks. I have no regrets, my father was wonderful...just terribly strict. That's also true for some girly friends who had similarly discipline-oriented domestic regimes. But also in contrast, many girl friends were not spanked growing up and now have their own preferences. I re-enact my childhood Princess spankings in role-play. So yes, has to be bare botty for me ! LB Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-71812408422009874932013-03-01T10:28:52.776-08:002013-03-01T10:28:52.776-08:00Taking it a step further, I've reached the poi...Taking it a step further, I've reached the point where I not only want to be bared then bare, but I want to be completely naked over her left thigh while her right leg is locked over the back of my knees and my right wrist is firmly pinned to the small of my back.<br />I describe my needs with this acronym: R.U.M.P.=Ritualistic, Unrelenting, Maternal, Punitive. Now, the maternal and punitive part are subjective and specific to roleplay.<br />Punitive it's not, except as part of the scene's eroticism. Maternal depends on the agreed upon prelude and follow through. It's all delicious and addictive and I wouldn't have it any other way. Love your blog, Alex, and your intimately expressed sentiments and reactions to your orientation and participation in the scene. -JJAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-85479446386740207072013-02-04T13:04:26.382-08:002013-02-04T13:04:26.382-08:00I'm glad you related! The word "ritualist...I'm glad you related! The word "ritualistic" is important to the whole thing. I really like the things which make a scene feel "right," but I can't always described why that is. That's totally part of it! alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-76034687556510303262013-02-01T23:45:25.754-08:002013-02-01T23:45:25.754-08:00I was nodding along with this post. I totally get ...I was nodding along with this post. I totally get what you mean about baring being a very ritualistic part of a spanking and increasing the level of intimacy that can be involved. For that reason, I too don't play bare with everyone right off the bat. When I am more connected with someone, I get that butterflies in my stomach feeling every time they yank them down. I can get that when I'm told to be prepared and take them down myself as well.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935712285136696225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-34977259793818541052013-02-01T21:54:15.526-08:002013-02-01T21:54:15.526-08:00Very true! Thanks for commenting!Very true! Thanks for commenting!alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-16135139745976501932013-02-01T21:54:05.544-08:002013-02-01T21:54:05.544-08:00Thanks for your comment, and for weighing in. :)Thanks for your comment, and for weighing in. :)alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-19586574118586472612013-02-01T21:53:10.216-08:002013-02-01T21:53:10.216-08:00Thanks! I'm glad to hear that you enjoyed the ...Thanks! I'm glad to hear that you enjoyed the post. alex reynoldshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406811265077936588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-14349681078995094462013-01-28T05:06:50.175-08:002013-01-28T05:06:50.175-08:00I think baring removes an important psychological ...I think baring removes an important psychological barrier making the spankee feel more vunerable and the spanker more in control.MrBrian2112https://www.blogger.com/profile/17765120617346491936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-39346947087818285132013-01-28T03:03:36.533-08:002013-01-28T03:03:36.533-08:00to me i see nothing wrong with baring my butt so...to me i see nothing wrong with baring my butt some people might say the spanking be more effectived if it on bare butt so hurt more i dont know but i think i would have no problem if iwas order to do that<br /><br />to me i think act of pulling down pants /panties/underwear yourself can be embrassing if have do it before your spanker can be embrassing cause you know you have to bare your butt to be spanked and have no chocie it was spanker want even same feeling as if the spanker pull down your pants to spank your bare butt<br /><br /> bare butt spanking to me is alway what some people when younger reember some when kids made had gottne spanked on bare so now an adult come nautrally to them. but still embrassing<br /><br /><br />Mike<br /> Madison ohioAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7516988553748971179.post-57778240652364556772013-01-27T21:43:05.401-08:002013-01-27T21:43:05.401-08:00This is one of your best posts to date, and you...This is one of your best posts to date, and you've have several incredibly good posts :-)<br /><br />Yes, baring the bottom is integral to my enjoyment. I appreciate that some folks like the ritual and slow reveal for buildup, but I really prefer to start all my scenes on the bare whenever possible. I'm very grateful for the trust my play partners give me in allowing me that and do my best to be worthy of that continued trust. And yes, I love talking about it. ;-) Sometimes it can really enhance a scene to whisper in a bottom's ear "I'm going to slowly take down your panties and spank your lovely bare bottom". BlackVelvet007noreply@blogger.com