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Play With Me

In addition to filming, I also offer spanking sessions as a professional bottom (and now, as a Top or switch, too! Please read on for more info).  I can be reached to arrange these by emailing alexinspankingland@gmail.com. What, exactly happens during a session depends on what you're interested in, but it inevitably involves me getting spanked (or spanking you)! It can involve role play and costumes (I specialize in school girl scenes and have a variety of uniforms, but enjoy doing all sorts of scenes), or simply being ourselves. The atmosphere can be fun and affectionate or punitive. The possibilities are endless, however, I do not engage in any kind of sexual contact or body fluid exchange during sessions (and I'm not "just saying that for the internet"). I'm serious about this and it is not negotiable. Rates for sessions will be discussed when you contact me. Tips are always appreciated, but by no means required. I do not do sessions on a trade or barter basis.

I have quite a lot of experience with "first spanking" sessions. I think it's a tremendous honor to be the first girl that someone gets to spank, and I strive to make this a wonderful experience that's remembered for a lifetime! I can provide technique feedback to help you find your comfort zone as a spanker. I have done a number of sessions with people who usually bottom but are curious about being on the other side of the paddle, and I have really enjoyed helping to explore this.

I recently began offering switch and Topping sessions. After spending a long time learning how to use implements properly and gaining confidence, I've grown into the roll of a Top quite well! I'm able to play in a variety of ways: I love doing roleplay scenarios as a top (I particularly relish scenarios that lead to embarrassment at being spanked by a such a young woman), but also enjoy spanking for spanking's sake and indulging masochism. Because I understand the headspace so well from having spent a long time on the receiving end of it, I've become an effective disciplinarian for real offenses and I can provide therapeutic, stress relief spanking as well. When switching, I find it fun to come up with roleplay scenarios that lend themselves well to switching, but enjoy playing in a variety of ways. Please feel free to email me with questions about these new services!

I'm permanently based in Los Angeles and can travel around the city and surrounding areas for sessions. If you're planning a trip to LA, I would love to see you while you're there! When in Los Angeles, I offer sessions every day of the week during both the day and the evening. My earliest available session is at 10:00 AM, and my latest session starts at 10:00 PM. While I'm happy to do a session spur of the moment at a spanking party, when I'm in Los Angeles I require at least 12 hours notice before a session, unless I've tweeted or otherwise posted availability. This includes phone/skype sessions.

I travel frequently, and book sessions at all national spanking parties as well as in the other cities that I visit. Depending on my lodging arrangements, sessions may be held in my hotel room, a professional play space or venue, or, in certain situations, at your location.

If you're interested in having a session with me but I don't have any plans to visit your area, I can add your city to my schedule if travel expenses are covered. If that's not possible, please let me know that you're interested anyway so that I can keep your city in mind for future trips!

If you are unable to attend a session that you've booked, please give me as much advance notice as possible so I can attempt to rebook the date and time that I've saved for you. This is especially important when I'm traveling, as I sometimes have to turn others down because I believe that my schedule is full. Please do not book sessions if you don't feel confident that you will be able to attend them without making this clear to me in advance. I understand that we all have emergencies, changes of schedule, family situations and illnesses and that cancelations sometimes must happen, and I'm often able to reschedule your time, but please don't take advantage of my understanding. Due to frequent and repeated cancelations, I require a non-refundable advance payment to rebook you after two local cancelations, one out of town cancelation or one no-show. Thanks for your understanding.

Depending on my location and everyone's schedule, I'm often available to book for double sessions, where you get to spank me and one of my wonderful spanking model friends together! This is especially possible at parties or when I'm at home in Los Angeles. Contact me for information about which models I'm available to partner up with!

Interested in doing a long distance roleplay scenario? Want to hear me tell you stories about my exciting spanking experiences? Have questions about spanking you'd like to ask me face-to-face? Want to watch me self-spank? I'm now available to book for Skype or phone sessions. Now you can enjoy my company no matter where you're located!

Please keep in mind that I am not obligated to have a session with anyone. If I decline your request for a session, please respect my choice and find someone else who can better cater to your individual needs. I reserve the right to choose what activities are and are not acceptable during a session based on my comfort level. Just because you've seen me do something in a video does not necessarily mean that I will do it in a session with you. Many films that I've done are with people that I know intimately and trust completely, which may lend itself to more physically intimate or more severe play than I'm comfortable doing with others.

Here's a list of some of the roleplay costumes that I currently offer:

  • School girl 
  • Nurse
  • Cheerleader
  • Girl Scout
  • Drop-seat pajamas
  • Age play costumes
  • Secretary/business woman
  • Vintage styles
  • Sweet Lolita fashion
  • Formal wear
I can also create a variety of other looks based on what's available in my wardrobe by getting a little creative. Let me know what your fantasy is!

While I have quite a high pain tolerance, I enjoy playing at a variety of intensities! Don't be afraid if your style of play seems less severe than some of the content that you've seen from me: just because I *can* play hard doesn't mean I have to! On the other hand, I can take a very good spanking and consider my pain tolerance quite high. Like everyone, I do have my limits, and I always play with a safeword in place. 

While spanking is my specialty I will do sessions in certain other kinks. This is on a case by case basis, although no sessions allow for fluid exchange or sexual contact.

Please email me at alexinspankingland@gmail.com with any questions you may have, or to book your session! I look forward to hearing from you.


  1. Love your costumes, sailor dress on the boat and that you puffy dresses.

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  3. my Sir loves to put me in outfits. He just this morning put me in a cathlic girl outfit and then spanked my bare bottom at the beach. OMG

    1. I am sorry to say this but can he play with me. Thats my fantasy